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Ma Blues a Book Club—mamembala omwe amalamulira

bcblues-dominating1Nayi funso zomwe zapezeka m'bokosi langa la makalata posachedwapa. Ndi vuto lofala m'magulu ambiri owerengera mabuku—The Dominator.

Kodi mumatani ngati membala amene nthawi zambiri amalankhula kwambiri pa nkhani ya mabuku? Tili ndi munthu amene amalankhula kwambiri. Choyipa kwambiri n'chakuti nthawi zonse amakhala womasuka kusokoneza ena.

Ili ndiye vuto lalikulu kwambiri lomwe likuvutitsa kalabu iliyonse yopezera mabuku ... ndipo palibe yankho losavuta. Komabe, nazi njira zingapo zoyesera:

1. Gwiritsani ntchito chizindikiro chapadera . Perekani chinthu—nthambi, mwala wojambulidwa, kapena pilo yaying'ono, mwachitsanzo—kuzungulira chipindacho. Munthu yekha amene ali ndi chizindikirocho ndi amene angalankhule. Amene sali ndi chizindikirocho sangasokoneze. Mukhoza kuchepetsa nthawi zomwe munthu angathe kugwira chizindikirocho. (Ine sindimakonda njira ya chizindikiro, koma magulu omwe amagwiritsa ntchito amati imagwira ntchito.)

2. Chepetsani nthawi yopereka ndemanga. Gwiritsani ntchito chowerengera nthawi kuti muchepetse ndemanga. Palibe amene ayenera kulankhula mphindi zoposa ziwiri (2) kwa oyamba—ndipo mosakayikira osapitirira mphindi imodzi (1) kuti apereke ndemanga pa malingaliro a wina. Cholinga cha aliyense ndikuphunzira kulankhula mwachidule kuti aliyense akhale ndi nthawi yoti apereke maganizo ake.

3. Yang'anirani zokambiranazo. Mtsogoleri akhoza kulowererapo ndi ndemanga monga, “Zabwino kwambiri, Bill. Zikomo. Koma tiyeni tipatse ena mwayi” kapena “Kodi tingamve kuchokera kwa wina?” kapena “Inu ena mukuganiza bwanji” kapena “Mary, simunanene chilichonse.” Zimatengera mtsogoleri wokangalika, waluso, kuti asunthe zokambiranazo kuchokera kwa munthu wina kupita kwa wina, popanda kulola munthu m'modzi kulamulira. Sizophweka.

4. Zonse zikalephera ... khalani olunjika.

• Yambani kukambirana maso ndi maso, kaya pamaso ndi maso kapena pafoni—osati, osati pa imelo kapena pa meseji. Onetsetsani kuti mwasankha munthu amene ali ndi luso la ndale.

• Zoti munene? ​​Mutsimikizireni munthuyo kuti ndi membala wofunika kwambiri mu gululo, koma ena amaona kuti maganizo awo sangamvekedwe...kapena kuti ngakhale gululo likuyamikira malingaliro a munthuyo, pali chizolowezi chochita zinthu mopitirira muyeso. Mupempheni kuti apatse ena mwayi...kapena kuti asalowererepo mobwerezabwereza...kapena kuchepetsa kutalika kwa ndemanga zake.

• Choyipa kwambiri ndi kupempha membala wolakwayo kuti achoke m'gululo. Izi n'zopweteka, koma chifukwa cha gulu lonse zingakhale zofunikira. Ngati vutolo silinathetsedwe, mamembala angayambe kusiya sukulu ndikupeza magulu ena. Perekani lingaliro—mwachifundo—loti membalayo apitirire.

Kodi vuto lili m'kalabu yanu? Kodi pali malingaliro aliwonse?

Ma Blues a Book Club—mamembala omwe sawerenga bukuli

bcblues-dontread2Ndimapeza zina Maimelo osangalatsa—ambiri amafotokoza za mavuto omwe magulu ambiri owerengera mabuku amakumana nawo. Nayi imodzi yomwe ndapeza posachedwapa:

Kodi mumatani ndi mamembala omwe sanawerenge bukuli…koma omwe amakondabe kulankhula ndi kulankhula ngati kuti adawerenga? Kodi makalabu ayenera kukhala ndi malamulo oti ngati simunawerenge bukuli, simungabwere ku msonkhano?

Konzani malangizo ena poyamba
Poyamba kukambirana buku lililonse, wolandira kapena mtsogoleri wa zokambirana ayenera kufunsa ngati mamembala onse angavomereze malingaliro otsatirawa:

• Ndi zenizeni—si aliyense amene angathe kuwerenga buku lililonse; tonsefe tili ndi moyo wotanganidwa. Chifukwa chake, anthu osawerenga ayenera kumva olandiridwa nthawi zonse kuti abwere.

• Pankhani ya chilungamo—anthu amene awerenga bukuli ayenera kuyamba ndi chidwi cholankhula za bukuli.

• Monga nkhani ya ulemu—Ndi udindo wa anthu osawerenga KUMVETSERA ndikupereka ndemanga mwachidule kapena kawirikawiri.

Kodi pali malingaliro ena? Apa ndi pomwe mungawagawire.

Ma Blues a Book Club—maululu ndi ululu wamba

bcblues-5aNkhani iyi mu New York Times imafalitsa miseche yabwino kwambiri m'magulu a mabuku—zikuoneka kuti si aliyense amene amasangalala ndi kalabu yomwe alimo. Ayi! Zoona? 

Inde—kodi sitinaphunzire kale kwambiri tili ana mwambi wakuti, “simungasangalatse anthu onse nthawi zonse”? N’chifukwa chiyani makalabu owerengera mabuku angakhale osiyana? —

Madandaulo ofala 

Kusankha Mabuku . Si aliyense amene amakonda mndandanda wa mabuku owerengedwa. Ena amakonda mabuku akale, ena okonzedwa ndi ana; ena osapeka kapena asayansi. Sikophweka kukwaniritsa zokonda zosiyanasiyana.

Mavuto Okambirana . Mamembala ena amadandaula za kucheza kwambiri kapena kusowa kwa mfundo zomveka; ena amaona kuti zokambiranazo ndi zamaphunziro kwambiri, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti chisangalalo chonsecho chisathe.

Mpikisano Wosamalira Malo . Kusamalira malo kumatha kukhala masewera a munthu mmodzi—kotero kuti mamembala ena amaika kusamalira malo pamwamba pa chizindikiro chawo cha nkhawa. Kodi chisangalalo chili kuti pamenepo?

Malangizo ena

Ngati mukuyambitsa kalabu , perekani malangizo pachiyambi pankhani ya mitundu ya mabuku omwe mukufuna kuwerenga komanso mtundu wa zokambirana. (Onani malangizo a LitLovers pa Momwe Mungayambitsire Kalabu Yowerengera Mabuku .)

Ngati muli mu kilabu yomwe ilipo kale , chitani kafukufuku, kaya mwalamulo kapena mwalamulo, kuti mudziwe ngati kilabu yanu ikukwaniritsa zomwe mamembala amayembekezera. Ndi mabuku amtundu wanji omwe mamembala amakonda? Ndi makambirano amtundu wanji? Ndi nthawi yochuluka bwanji yomwe imathera pa nkhani za anthu ndi mabuku? Ndi chakudya chamtundu wanji ndipo ndani amaphika?

Ngati ndinu m'modzi mwa anthu osasangalala , khalani omasuka kupitiriza ndi moyo wanu popanda kudziimba mlandu kwambiri ... komanso popanda kukhumudwa kwambiri. Mungangouza mamembala anu kuti mukufuna kuyesa njira ina. Komabe, ngakhale aliyense ali ndi ndale bwanji, kuchoka nthawi zonse kumakhala kovuta. Koma khalani olimba mtima.

 

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